Backport #31015 by @denyskon
Do not try to create a new authorization grant when one exists already,
thus preventing a DB-related authorization issue.
Fix https://github.com/go-gitea/gitea/pull/30790#issuecomment-2118812426
Co-authored-by: Denys Konovalov <kontakt@denyskon.de>
Co-authored-by: Lunny Xiao <xiaolunwen@gmail.com>